Read: Matthew 1:18-25 (NIV)
18This
is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged
to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be
pregnant through the Holy Spirit. 19Because Joseph her husband was
faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he
had in mind to divorce her quietly.
20But
after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream
and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your
wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21She
will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he
will save his people from their sins.”
22All
this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23“The
virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”
(which means “God with us”).
24When
Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took
Mary home as his wife. 25But he did not consummate their marriage
until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.
Reflect:
Often
we have our lives planned out, both for the short term and the long term. But
life has a way of throwing “curveballs” at us (God’s way of interrupting our
plans), and we are left with decisions on how to handle these changes. After
all, we know the best way to fix things … or so we think. All too often we rely
on our own reasoning, as Joseph did when he decided to handle his curveball by
quietly divorcing Mary. By doing this, it would have save everyone from the
disgrace of public ridicule. He applied human reasoning to a plan designed by
God. During difficult times, we need to pray more and rely on God, not our own
desires and wants. God’s ideas are always better than ours; we just have to
trust in Him.
It
wasn’t until Joseph was given a clear direction by an angel of the Lord that he
realized what he should do and why. Unfortunately, we are usually not given
such clear direction and purpose. We all experience life-changing events during
the most unexpected times: God’s time. We have to realize that God’s timing is
perfect. He uses life-altering events to conduct a reality check and look at
where we are in our relationship with Him. We should use this time to rely more
fully on God’s plan for us. Though we don’t know the outcome, we have to trust
in His plans for us and all who will be affected by these events. One verse
that coincides with trusting the plan God has for us is Jeremiah 29:11, “For I
know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not
to harm you, plans to give you a hope and future.” God’s plan may not be our
plan or what we want, but it is always the right plan.
Act:
When
the unexpected happens, put your trust in God and pray for wisdom and
understanding. Even the most catastrophic events will have good come from that
which works toward God’s will for us all. The hardest part for any of us is
trying to see the good from such events as losing one’s job or losing a loved
one, especially unexpectedly. During our time here on Earth, we may not
understand God’s decisions. We may not understand why bad things happen to good
people. During these times, we need to remember His way is better than ours. He
knows a lot more than we do, and He has a much better plan for us.
Pray:
Lord,
we thank You for the trials we encounter throughout our lives. Trials that help
shape us and give us the opportunity to see your plan for each of us. Help us
to remember that Your way is always better than ours. When life throws us a
curveball and the unexpected happens, remind us that You are in complete
control. Remind us that hope comes from our belief in You and the plan You have
laid out for us. Though we may not understand Your plan, we know You see the
whole picture.
Mark
and Susan Pearson
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